Don’t Marry a Jerk!

Posted by Candace on Feb 4, 2006 | 5 Comments

This new program has some good advice. I saw the article posted on a MilSpouse board and thought I’d share it with you.

Unfortunately, I think it will be about as successful as any other program aimed at 18 year olds.

“Being in the military certainly raises the stakes when you choose a mate,” said Lt. Col. Peter Frederich, head of family issues in the Pentagon’s chaplain office

.The “no jerks” program is also called “P.I.C.K. a Partner,” for Premarital Interpersonal Choices and Knowledge.

It advises the marriage-bound to study a partner’s F.A.C.E.S. — family background, attitudes, compatibility, experiences in previous relationships and skills they’d bring to the union.

It teaches the lovestruck to pace themselves with a R.A.M. chart — the Relationship Attachment Model — which basically says don’t let your sexual involvement exceed your level of commitment or level of knowledge about the other person.

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